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Comment on Delusions of Grandeur by Leila

Leila — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 08:38:52 +0000

You are absolutely right! I still think the parents suck, but people can only do what they are ALLOWED to do, so, as you say, if Lenox Hill had had the cojones to say no, this whole fiasco wouldn’t have happened.

Comment on The Year of Making Shit Happen by Leila

Leila — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 08:37:03 +0000

Dude, you KNOW if I come to see my sister I will let you know!!!! I have to see my boys and meet Mia!!!!

Comment on The Org Chart by Cat Lady

Cat Lady — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 10:03:19 +0000

Love your org chart photo!

Comment on Really, The Last Time I’m Discussing Ewok Porn Ever by Cat Lady

Cat Lady — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 10:01:20 +0000

Thank you for my BOL @ 5AM!

Comment on The Year of Making Shit Happen by Thubbs

Thubbs — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 23:38:24 +0000

Well…well…we’ll. It is about ‘effin time I jumped on here – just read about geek porn (I’m old scoll in the porn dept – maybe because I came to porn late in life – no pun intended- or, maybe it was ??)… Re: this post, yes, I am with you BUT, I am a little distressed that I didn’t get courtesy/cursory mention as you went on about visiting your magnificent sister in my backyard?? Hmmm. I am clearly going to have stay on top of this blog because all he’ll is breaking loose… Much love

Comment on Delusions of Grandeur by TwoNuse

TwoNuse — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 00:15:04 +0000

I don’t understand why the main villains in L’Affaire Blue Ivy are Team Carter and not the hospital.

Beyoncé & Jay-Z have NO responsibility towards other parents or infants. Lenox Hill does. When Team Carter came to the hospital with their privacy demands, someone should have politely but firmly refused. As should have any other hospital if Team Carter decided to hospital shop until either the demands become more reasonable or the kid is brought into the world in a Meatpacking District loft turned birthing center.

Excess is easy to decry. Dereliction of duty deserves it more.

Comment on Annoying Thing #1 and Ewok Porn by Leila

Leila — Sat, 07 Jan 2012 23:29:29 +0000

No… There are NOT too many geeks. I LOVE geeks. There is nothing worse than a stupid man, although some of my female friends might consider the term “stupid man” to be an oxymoron. But please…keep the Ewok porn to a dull roar, dudes.

Comment on Annoying Thing #1 and Ewok Porn by Peter G McDermott

Peter G McDermott — Sat, 07 Jan 2012 21:23:04 +0000

Way too many geekety geek geeks out there!

Comment on Rebuilding the Zen Palace by Leila

Leila — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 23:08:11 +0000

No, Cat Lady, for everything that you HAVE, there is always something else that is…missing. It’s a big lesson in appreciation of what you DO have, I guess, but even that doesn’t HELP. My hubby loves me. My kids are awesome. But there are still gaping holes in my life that they cannot fill. And I either have to fill them myself, somehow, some way, or come to grips with the idea that life WILL have holes, that there IS no such thing as perfect happiness, that there will always be regrets and things missing. My mom is out there somewhere, I know not where, and she chooses not to speak to me. My dad died without us ever having formed a relationship. These things wound me daily and nothing fills those holes, because you only get one mom and dad (usually) and mine are majorly fucked up, and I KNOW this, and yet…I feel like there is something wrong with ME. Hubby and kids are lovely but…don’t think cuz you don’t have them that my life is better. As I said, they are a big reason for my still EXISTING. The question I still grapple with is…why DO I still exist?

Comment on CODE RED! CODE RED! CODE RED!!! by Leila

Leila — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 22:52:33 +0000

YES! PRAISE GOD! You would have read about me in the news otherwise…I think it might have provided just the excuse I need to run down the street naked.

Comment on CODE RED! CODE RED! CODE RED!!! by BalancedIdjit

BalancedIdjit — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 22:32:36 +0000

AND??? did you find the damn things? LOL!

Comment on Rebuilding the Zen Palace by Cat Lady

Cat Lady — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 22:48:08 +0000

You are not alone, we are –><–
I thought having a husband and children who love you would make those feelings go away (what I currently don't have). Every day I try to take it one step at a time. Funny how we learn that many people are struggling with these issues when we get older. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Comment on So What Does This Sound Like to YOU? by TwoNuse

TwoNuse — Wed, 07 Dec 2011 03:50:48 +0000

I would have guessed golf balls.

Comment on Plan’s by Cat Lady

Cat Lady — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 00:44:40 +0000

This post put a smile on my face, I love young happy children!

Comment on He’s Got Moves, Baby by Cat Lady

Cat Lady — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 00:37:44 +0000

LOL, he will so appreciate hearing/reading this story when he gets older.

Comment on In Which I Explain Why The Tech Guru Calls Me ‘Hooker’ and I Call Him ‘Motherfucker’ by Cat Lady

Cat Lady — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 20:23:33 +0000

I too don’t know anything about baboon sex . . . .HOWEVER True Blood Vampire sex looks VERY tempting. I just discovered that show this year online (don’t have cable) and love that show.

You guys are too funny

Comment on My Next BFF Is Going to Be a Guinea Pig by twonuse

twonuse — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 04:25:13 +0000

There isn’t a chance in hell of a guinea pig ending up here. Too rodent-like for the Mrs. We have been able to tell the 4 year old no dog until the 10 month old can defend herself. So we’ve bought some time.

Comment on The Dying Art of Telephone Etiquette by Leila

Leila — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 16:30:27 +0000

Yeah. Back atcha.

Comment on The Dying Art of Telephone Etiquette by Here is a

Here is a — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 14:53:57 +0000

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Comment on I Didn’t Tell Him To, I Swear by Leaf Probabaly

Leaf Probabaly — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 01:04:02 +0000

I hate shots too. And it’s so hard to find a good doctor here where I am, because waiting lists are HUGE! So the only GP I could sign up with earlier this year, was a doc who has a very counter-intuitive view to depression and medication…. Not ideal!!

Comment on Leila Bachelon is… by Tamara

Tamara — Tue, 15 Nov 2011 14:28:09 +0000

I googled “mommy needs a mental vacation” after having a really sh*tay morning and I stumbled across your page. I have laughed at some of your thoughts as well as feeling other emotions, because I totally freaking relate to alot of what you say. You rock and thank you for uplifting my spirit!

Comment on I Am Alive…I Think by Leila

Leila — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 05:22:40 +0000

Well you know what sucks? Missing all my damn meds made the depression WORSE. It was kind of scary to see how far down I regressed when I didn’t take my Lexapro for 3 days. I guess I am officially a drug addict. Whoo hoo!!!

Comment on I Am Alive…I Think by tracey - justanothermommy

tracey - justanothermommy — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 20:35:51 +0000

I love that you call it camp. That is sheer genius parenting. Sorry you had sickness and are now dealing with the bitch that is depression. Hope you hold her at bay and then kick her in the ass.

Comment on 10 Years Later by Kev

Kev — Tue, 01 Nov 2011 11:03:03 +0000

Bravo, Lei…Bravo.

Comment on Contact by Sarah

Sarah — Sat, 24 Sep 2011 02:27:53 +0000

Hey Leila,

In case you really were interested, I am the the towel-maker from thebloggess.com, and I do have a site where you can buy them direct.

And yeah, it was a very awkward conversation when relaying the design to my embroiderer…though she told me it was far from the weirdest thing she’d ever stitched. I may need to up the ante a bit.

Cheers,

Sarah
alteregolinens.com

Comment on Here, Have Some Spam for Breakfast by Leila

Leila — Mon, 12 Sep 2011 04:17:33 +0000

Oh Tracey, you would suck as a spammer. You really have to work harder at having totally incoherent sentence structure. Using words that don’t actually exist in the English language would help too. Like ferfenblatz or schneeden. Those are awesome words and I’m the ONLY PERSON IN THE WORLD who knows what they mean. I spam people with them ALL THE TIME. Now, you can too.

Comment on Here, Have Some Spam for Breakfast by tracey - justanothermommy

tracey - justanothermommy — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 22:39:24 +0000

I get my own fair share of weird comments, but yours have their own, how shall I say? Texture. Yes. Yours are textured more deeply than my spammy comments are. I am a bit jealous, I must admit.

Shit. Now I’m sounding like the comments above. Unintentionally, of course. Doing it with intent would require a lot more forethought than I usually have before I hit “publish”.

Comment on The Nuthouse Alternative by Leila

Leila — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 05:07:06 +0000

You guys are both awesome. You are right, Mommy needs to take care of herself. And writing here actually goes a long way in helping with that because it helps me let off some steam, but what is also exciting is that I just found the most AWESOME BABYSITTER. And I will not only use her for the days that the Tech Guru and I want to go out on a date, but for the times when Mommy wants to go out on her own to yoga class, or get her toes done, or WHATEVER. Yes, I do have a therapist, but I think what I need right now, is time alone. Like a retreat or some shit. And I’m working on it so STAY TUNED.

Comment on The Nuthouse Alternative by Sadia

Sadia — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 22:12:20 +0000

i vote you take a trip to california…to visit me. we can both commit ourselves to a winery/spa facility. seriously. anytime. let’s do this.

Comment on The Nuthouse Alternative by BalancedIdjit

BalancedIdjit — Wed, 07 Sep 2011 17:58:43 +0000

Well…I was quite surprised when I read the last post (yesterday?) and there were no comments. Because surely, people are reading your blog.

Does your husband have an EAP at work? You could/should call and go in and visit a shrink and/or a therapist. I just think you don’t have to live this way and there IS help available.

Time for Mommy to take care of herself